someone asked me : In your about me on orkut you've written " i m my own best friend"., are you really that lonely? don't you have any real friends?

Now just how do you answer that?

True and not True. I have a 1000 or more friends , a handful few i call best friends. and one I'd do anything on this planet for.

But who is truly my real REal REAL best friend?

Come to think of it now that i am into defining people since the last few blogs lets try and define best friends:
1) someone who knows me inside out?
2) someone who doesn't need an explanation of what i do , when i do it and why i do it?
3) someone who knows just when to hold my hand, hug me or do anything similar?
4) someone who knows when to yell at me and when to calm me down?
5) someone who knows what running through my mind without me having to tell it ever at all, like knows when i am crying on the inside?
6) someone who knows me so well that he/she can predict what i will do and when and why?
7) someone who can read through all my truths and lies?
8) someone who can listen to me through all the nonsensical stuff i might talk about?
9) someone who is just so like me that i'd never be able to tell the difference?
10) someone who likes the kinda things i like and wants to do the kinda things i wanna at the time i wanna do them?
11) someone who'd be like so similar people wouldn't know the difference except maybe that we look different?
12) someone who could pass of as my replica because we have similar tastes?
13) someone who could just be me??????????????........................................................................................................................................

Now that's weird..... i am asking for someone to be me!!!!
Wouldn't it be better if i let everyone be who ever they are and jsut be happy with myself??
I mean that way i have a lot many friends who are not me and i have myself to keep me company.

I think that answers your question buddy,
Thats the reason i am my own best friend. I still have a 1000 or more friends but none knows me as well as i know myself.

sisters

Love them Hate them... but you just cant live with or without them!!

If u have a elder sister like i do, you are so going to agree to everything i am going to say now.

1) They tease till you cry (she used to enter the bathroom and tell me she was going on a plane and i'd cry and cry because i wanted to sit on the plane too and i couldn't she loved irritating me when i a baby),
2) They torture you till you don't agree to doing what they want you to ( emotional blackmail works wonders here)
3) They tell you lies about what they are doing (even if its obvious even to babies) because they think you are still a baby! (huh!!!)
4) They tell you to learn to do things on your own to grow older and the minute you do anything on your own they come and say what the hell are you doing? you are still small for this ( don't matter if you are a full 24 years old and have enough brains to sustain anything almost)
5) and etc.. etc...

6) They will support you in public (sometimes if the other person is just too rude and not a family member)
7) They will buy you expensive things without people knowing about it because they love you (sometimes hiding it from mom and dad too)
8)They will treat you like a baby and feed you good food (sometimes even when they are super tired)
9) They will try and make everything around you perfect for you.

They are good and they are bad,
they are sweet and they are bitter,
they are funny and they are boring,
you like them and you hate them,
but somehow you cant live without them.

hm.m... hate you, but i still love you sister!!!

Friends

Friends.. how do u define this term?

1) two people who share anything and everything under the sun?
2) two people who know each other inside out?
3)two people who know each other so well that words are exchanged without the need to say them?
4) two people who are together without really being near?
5) two people who are so perfect together that they dont really need anyone else?

Just how does one define that term?
Today something happened in my life which made me think is this what friendship is?
I have a friend, i think highly of! i might bitch about her, i might crib, but i care don't know why maybe because i shared a dozen memories with her, maybe because i shared some off my deepest thoughts with her, maybe just maybe.

I stopped talking to her for a number of reasons. she seemed too far to talk to or approach, she seemed almost unreachable. I found new friends and she found new friends and we stopped talking. We became just roommates who barely conversed!

This became so regular a part of me that it seemed like this is how it always is with friends as they grow older!
Until today! today we just met at home co-incidentally and i expected an awkwardness but instead the feeling was very warm and welcome.
It was almost as if we had been talking normally since ages and nothing had changed. probably something had but i dint really notice it!
And we spoke like before. normally. Absolutely normally.
It was surprisingly warm and easy!!!!
hm.m.. is that friendship?

6) two people who don't feel awkward when they talk even after ages.