I have always wondered.. how easy is it to forgive and forget??
when should one forgive?
Is it necessary to forget after you forgive?
Is it better to not forgive and simply forget?
when and where is each of these questions valid? well i have had several incidences in my past That could not be forgiven and yet i did.. several i did not! but i was ready to forget each simply to ease my pain.
But there have been incidences which have not hurt me but made me angry, several i forgot several are still fresh in my memories!
Today something happened in my life that made me realise that not everyone is forgiving or ready to forget things very easily.... some torture you to hell to punish you either my abusing, making you do things you hate, or by simply giving you the silent treatment!

I faced all three and yet i don't think it ends here, there is much more to come i am sure. God grant me the patience and the strength for it all.
I wish i thought of God more often and not just when in trouble!